Right off the bat in Genesis, HOLY LAND MAN noticed that GOD warned Adam and Eve that they would die if they ate of the forbidden fruit. Eve decided to eat the fruit and die. Yet, GOD did not keep his word and decided to make her, and the female generations to come, suffer.
That by itself is evidence of a mean, cruel GOD that is untrustworthy, unlike the GOD that we trust, love, and respect.